Why am I so frigid? Help!!?

I agree frigid does refer to cold, so first of all tell them get their vocabulary correct. Secondly, you do seem to be very young, and just because your moving at a slower pace than others doesnt make you any less than anybody else! In this day and age this generation is moving very fast and dangerously, Im only 19 myself but i've learned quite a bit and if you honestly want to open up a little more than what your doing now, start with a date, conversation, continue your "kissing" if thats what you feel and be HONEST it's very refreshing to the right guy, if you have to feel uncomfortable around him, he isnt the one anyway!